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阿尼玛

今天是圣诞节,我想到刚看到痞子蔡写的《阿尼玛》中的圣诞舞会。想想也是应景,就上来写两句。

在遇到她之前,我心中的阿尼玛形象也是模糊不清。有的是美貌多一些,有的是善良多一些,有的是纯真多一些,有的则是开朗多一些,还有的是善解人意多一些。回想起过去走过的路,遇到过的人,再想想和她正在安稳的度过结婚后的第七年,不再痒,内定笃定。想到这,内心涌起幸福的感觉。

没有人是完美的,只有适合不适合。所以对于我和她而言,爱恨情愁都会化为生活的平常,如流水般细细流淌,波澜不惊。这么多年,我们遇到过很多事情,也成长了许多,我们都有所改变,也更懂得依赖对方,互搀手臂,共同往前走。对于家中的琐事,也会商量着来,对于不如意的事,也会互相安慰,直至看开。对于未来,也充满期许,并愿意努力和尝试。但是,心态上会平和许多,不会计较太多。

我们在互相学习,把自己最好的一面交给对方。她会因为害怕我开车技术不好,而在她不在的日子里,严禁我开车。而我也会尝试着去开车,希望技术提高后,不让她继续担心。有的时候,我需要选择和迫力,而有的时候,她也要从纠结中走出来,变得更加活泼。

更加活泼?好吧,是这样子的,正如上一篇所讲的,我希望她一直笑着,不管笑成什么样,我都爱看,百看不厌。

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