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爱情

这个世界,好的爱情分两种,一种是两小无猜,一种便是隐忍。

没有什么秘密不言,什么都告诉他,相信他,真实可以吹散谣言,没有什么比真实更可贵。这种感情,坚如磐石,坚不可摧。

而隐忍则代表着一方要让着另一方。凡事,事事都要忍让。她做什么事情,你不能干涉,你的话她可以选择不听,但她的话你必须听从。其实这并没有什么,人生苦短,两个相爱的人走到一起,本来就是一件不易的事,所以,让一让,更表达一份疼爱,更彰显气度和胸怀。

但隐忍有时也会走向危险。《北京爱情故事》里的韩心爸妈,李卫红和韩万和,当韩万和死了的那一节,很多人都哭了,韩万和的木头小人刻着李卫红每一个时期的相貌,遗憾的是李卫红看不到这些,韩万和忍了李卫红一辈子,但结局让人垂泪。

爱情的方式有很多种,但每个人都在寻找一个平衡,而只有找到这个平衡之后,爱情才能长久。如果韩万和在李卫红面前不那么懦弱,早点把事实说出来,而如果李卫红不那么专断,可以细心听韩万和慢慢讲出来,这就完美了。但结局就是这样,没人料得到。

我们的爱情要想长久,必须吸取教训和经验。我想起结婚前,我告诉自己,结婚决不是爱情的坟墓。但现在,如果爱情的经营不在用心的话,不知道自己该做什么的话,不把对方永远放在第一位的话,我想说,这样的爱情是有保质期的,而且会很短。

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